RIP Madiba (Nelson Mandela)

RIP Madiba….you were one of a few leaders I truly respect.

May your latter legacy of peace, courage & forgiveness live on and inspire many!

As a young girl my sister (Taryn) and I were waitresses at Madiba’s inauguration, you and Bishop Tutu took the time to greet us and I will always remember that.

You are a man that has inspired me….in a strange time when people were still unsure, I read your book “Long Walk to Freedom” it gave my insight and admiration for you…..in ways it changed me and also shaped me.

Unfortunately we did not all get the opportunity to let you know in person what a difference you made, but I know that from the life beyond all such things become clear.  It reminds me of the lyrics to a song by Ray Boltz – Thank you http://www.metrolyrics.com/thank-you-lyrics-ray-boltz.html

Thank you Madiba for letting us see and live that forgiveness is truly life changing for all.

Nkosi Si’kelele iAfrica

http://m.news24.com/news24/SouthAfrica/News/World-unites-in-grief-celebration-for-Mandela-20131206

Help a young boy (11 yr) acheive a dream – Please?

Hi All!

I don’t often ask for assistance or donations but this time I am…

Whether you are family or a friend in SA or abroad, your donation will help a young boy see at least one dream fulfilled.

My eldest sister, Alet En Fanie Hattingh’s youngest – Heinz Hattingh (11yr) – has been selected as part of the SA NMA/ISKA Team to attend the ISKA World Championships in Orlando USA in July 2014!!  165 candidates have been selected but there are only 120 spaces to attend.

In order for him to go we need to raise funds for him (and his dad as he can’t go alone) to get to the championships.  We need to raise R60,000 of which and amount of R6000 needs to be collected by 13 Dec 2013

If you can help and you are willing please contact me via inbox or e-mail or my sister Alet Hattingh 🙂

You can have a look at http://www.kickboxing.co.za and we also have the official letter if you would like to see it 🙂

The young boy who’s dreams you can help come true

 

Marriage is not for you…..what an amazing post I stumbled upon….

Whether you are single, married, in a relationship, a sworn bachelor or bachelorette,…this is a must read for you…

 

Marriage Isn’t For You

 

Thoughts of a contemplative, single lady….drawing near to birthday 36…

This post is my crazy ramblings it might not be a great read…..

Today was the celebration of my youngest sibling’s oldest child……5 years…..

I love all my siblings’ children!!

Today the thoughts were playing through my head….at almost 36, single and no steady relationship with any man showing intentions more than friendship….is it too late for me to still fulfil my dream and desire of my own little family?

Considering that I’m currently very happily living on my own on the farm where I work and how many years I have been living on my own, now it appears I have become so accustomed to living on my own that it would be a serious challenge for me to share a home with anyone besides my two puppies….

And having mentioned my puppies…I have already been cautioned against becoming the crazy lady who loves her dogs and where the dogs become an integral part of my life…well, at this time these two puppies are really the only constant companions I have had since taking them into my home about two years ago….they are a big part of my every day life…I’m thankful to have two lively pets who offer me some affection, joy and serious laughter!

No, I’m not a recluse! I have friends, granted most of them are married with kids, I have a couple of close friends and family who have walked beside me for several years on my journey through the hope, the joy, the doubt, the heartache and back to hopefulness again! (To each of you – nothing will ever make me forget your love, support, prayers and you being there to pick up the pieces along the way)

Some (who know most of my story) will say its more eventful and shocking than most Hollywood movies….still I believe in love and I still open my heart time and again….thanks to loving support I also retained my faith in Christ Jesus!!

I do believe that I will find my soul mate and life partner….tonight I am just pondering whether when this happens it would be a little ridiculous to still want to start a family…

I know…..God only knows….
I know….love comes when you least expect it….

I have loved deeply!
I have been hurt deeply!!
Deep wounds have been healed in me!
AND
Again I open my heart widely to be loved and love deeply….

This is not a cry out for the average “advice”….most people have no idea what it is like to have never been married, not had a child, never lived together with a significant other at my age…unless you do you cannot honestly believe you have “advice” for me….

Your love, prayers, friendship and support will always be appreciated!

When my special day eventually arrives I will share my joy with you all, albeit only on here….and I know that at that time all these questions will be answered….

For now I am enjoying the freedoms associated with the single life!!

My life flashed before my eyes

Hello all!

So…I’m still loving the new job 🙂

I was sent on a training course for QuickBooks this week and absolutely loved the opportunity to learn more! We had such a knowledgeable tutor – Daniel Barnard – I’d attend any class he gives any day!

On my way back I had a bit of hassles though…and honestly I have never before been so affected by such instances.

First on the N1 between Mokopane and Polokwane just as I neared a large truck (I was driving 120 km/h in the fast lane, while the trucks were behind each other in the slow lane) probably about 100metre away from him, the truck suddenly pulls out into the fast lane to over take the other one!!! Seriously!!! I almost drove straight into him but managed to slam on the brakes and ensure that there was no collision.

Second incident happened on the Modjadjiskloof Road between Polokwane and Tzaneen….the whole way from Polokwane I’m driving behind this truck which has a faulty right-hand-side indicator as the light keeps flashing dimly…but as there was lots of traffic from ahead I could not over take… a car did try to over take but had to push in in front of me again as there was a truck coming from ahead…eventually the car took another life threatening chance and just got past…another truck then came up behind me and started flashing lights at me….now, I was wondering what exactly am I supposed to do? should I also take a life threatening chance? Well I did not fancy putting my life in danger so I stayed patiently behind the truck in front of me which kept putting his hazards on every so often but not slowing down or anything when doing so….eventually the truck ahead of me puts on his hazards again, then stops dead in his tracks for no apparent reason!! There is traffic from ahead but I manage to break just in time, the truck behind me however is laying on his hooter, flashing his lights and still approaching…it seems he can’t get his truck to stop…I cannot describe the feelings and emotions I felt at the time…honestly I was just thinking “Well God, I did all I can to the best of my human abilities, if this is it, I hope you will take me up to heaven”.  And I am in no way exaggerating…those were my thoughts.  Eventually the truck stopped (while still hooting) only about 5mm from my car! God is awesome!!! I’m so thankful to be alive….

Today I just feel so teary, someone just has to look at me and I will cry…seriously guys I just feel so vulnerable and exposed…since last night…never knew such an experience could have such a lingering effect…

 

Thank you to each of you for your love, support, care and prayers I appreciate you all more than you know.

I know God will heal my emotions soon and I will be my happy, joyful self again 🙂  

The attached photo is of me before leaving Jhb for the last day of training on 18 September 2013.

 

 

 

Pointing out others’ mis-steps…

Just pondering….

if the local church was doing all they should…..

would there be a need for christians to turn to “others” for prayer, healing, guidance, assistance etc?

Why is it that we as the church would rather spend time pointing out others’ mistakes and exalting the “leaders” in our “churches” than to take the time to tend to those in “need”?

Strange things indeed…and is it not true that where 2 or more are gathered together in His Name there He is in the midst of them? (Matt18:20)

Let’s trust God’s Word and not rely so heavily on the interpretations given to us by people…..especially if there is no scripture stating what they are telling you….?

I am developing a sincere concern in my heart for the “churches” as I hardly ever see the mention of Christ in any “advertisements” nor quotes or truths from scripture however, I continually see people/leaders being mentioned, lifted on high, quoted and honoured….

Yes! I may be misreading or misinterpreting peoples intentions – but we are not judged by our intentions….

My heart burns to see the church of Christ lifting His Name on high again and honouring and praising Him instead of putting mere men and woman on pedestals…

I pray that God will touch the hearts of His people if my message rings true and if this is all in my mind and not from the Spirit I will be corrected not by opinion but by scripture and Holy Spirit (by godly people if God so chooses)

Still unpacking but already “at home”

Hey all!

So, I still have plenty boxes to be unpacked and missing plenty of curtains at the moment – partly due to a lack of energy and partly not having the right curtains and another reason is that I just don’t know what I want to put where……which of my friends want to become an interior designer? or believe they have a flair for it?  You are most welcome to come and “design” my living spaces for me.

I am certain designing my living spaces will prove to be a challenge 🙂

The dogs are settling in but have some odd behaviour lately and I am uncertain just how to handle it….my idea is that it is possibly due to new surroundings and they have had to be kept indoors the whole day during the day and I’m certain it only creates the opportunity for mischief as well as breeds the willingness due to boredom.

I love living on the farm!

Over weekends the dogs enjoy the space when I can let them roam around freely and I enjoy staring out over the mountains.

If any of you are in the area (Politsi Valley) remember to either pop in for coffee or come and visit for a day or two – if you let me know in advance you may even be spoiled with something made by my own fair hands (if I’m feeling particularly domesticated that is).

Warning: Until someone has come to help (and rescue me) by doing some interior design of my living spaces you might have to visit in between unpacked boxes but I could say it makes you feel like you were a part of my move LOL

All is good and I just wanted to let you all know that 🙂

 

 

My fresh start

Amorentia

I have moved into my new home now and I’m starting to settle in.

The puppies are loving the space! And have made many new “friends”! Doey and Leila explore and play with our neighbouring dogs at every chance they get.

I absolutely love living here surrounded by nature, peace and fresh air.
Its a pleasure walking to work and back, not having to drive being frustrated by other people’s inconsiderate and reckless driving!

There is still so much for me to learn and explore here!

For the first time in years my mind is tired at night from all the new information, I love it!

Everyone here on the farm is like a family (not just a team) even those of us who are not related by blood. It is truly refreshing to be employed by people who genuinely take an interest in each employee as a person (in totality) even our personal well being.

Although I still have plenty of unpacked boxes standing all around the house I am certain that I will (eventually) get them all unpacked! Honestly I haven’t even hung my curtains in each room *blush*

To all my family and friends who have already or soon will visit my home, please bear with me….hee hee….I am still in the process of truly “setting up house”. Although you are discouraged from complaining you are welcome to “lend a hand” (“,)

Farewell

Having the opportunity to visit with some of my precious friends this evening for my “Farewell to Polokwane” just reminded me how blessed I am!

Feeling truly thankful that God has and continues to bless me with wonderful friends on my life path.

Thank you to each of you that made my night special!!!

My girlfriends

Looking back…

While starting to pack my little flat back into boxes for the big move I have had time to reflect on my time in Polokwane…..

Looking back several memories have buried themselves deep in my heart along with special friends I have made and family I have been able to reconnect with.

My time in Polokwane has been fun, challenging, encouraging, comforting, uncomfortable, lonely at times, busy, full….to metion but a few

The time here has taught me much, reintroduced me to building friendships and also built on my relationship skills!

To my special friends who have walked along side me for a part of this journey as well as the precious friends and family who have been travelling with me throughout the entire adventure – Thank You!

Looking back it has been one amazing rollercoaster (“,)

I am totally ready to embrace this new adventure ahead of me and remain absolutely thankful knowing I am in the palm of my Creator’s hand!

I hope that many of you will be coming to visit me in my new home (“,)